Friday, February 29, 2008

Saturday Tsunami

I am really dreading Saturday and I need your help.

It doesn't happen often, but Saturday is a day jammed-packed with so many activities that I know that Libby Doodle Doo and Little Zo Peep will have a meltdown -- and maybe Mama Hen, too.


I have found that over-scheduling is one of the worse things I can do as a mom. I've made many mistakes doing it in the past when Little Zo Peep was younger. I thought I had learned from those errors, but apparently not. Plus, I just cringe at the thought of what adding Libby Doodle Doo to this madness will do.

Typically Saturday involve attending a 1 hour Mandarin Class for Little Zo Peep in the morning from 10:45 till 11:45. Then we then spend the rest of the day relaxing and recharging.


This Saturday -- March 1st -- is NOT a typically Saturday.


We've known for months that Little Zo Peep has an important dance performance that involves her entire Chinese dance school on Saturday. It will be held at a theatre in the cultural center of our city -- which will be a big stage with theatre lights -- all very exciting. The performance is sold out so I think it is an event that will be well-attended by the local community. The Peep -- and, therefore, we -- will have to be at the theatre venue hours and hours before the performance begins.


About 3 weeks ago, the dance instructor sent an invitation that she was hosting a celebratory reception after the dance performance. I knew how long the instructor had worked with Zo Peep's class to perfect their dance. I wanted to honor and thank her for all of her hard work and dedication, so I RSVP'd that we would attend. This reception will stretch into the evening.


At the same time I received a notice from Zo Peep's school that they were hosting their annual Art's Odyssey on Saturday March 1st. This event is a day-long event and includes musical performances, dance, art exhibits from the entire school. It also includes the world debut of Z's kindergarten class performing The Little Red Hen at 11:50am.


I talked to Zo Peep about the conflict with the dance class performance later that day and how I didn't think we could do all of these things in the same day. But she really, really wanted to perform with her Kindergarten class -- so I(against my better judgement), acquiesced and committed that we would be there.


So here is our Saturday:


*Mama Hen wakes up -- obscenely early

*Kids Wake Up 6:45AM

*Breakfast 7:15AM till 8AM

*Get ready 8AM till 9AM

*Leave house at 9 AM

*Attend Mandarin Class from 9:30Am until 10:30 AM (Rescheduled to attend an earlier session)

*Find Restaurant for mid morning snack. Eat 10:30am to 11:15AM

*Arrive school at 11:30 AM

*Red Hen Performance 11:50AM to 12:15PM

*Eat lunch in car as we drive to theatre for the dance performance 12:20 to 1:15PM

*Arrive at theatre for dance rehearsal -- 1:15PM

*Zo Peep gets into wardrobe, hair & makeup (her favorite part, my least favorite) 1:30 to 2:15

*Zo Peep dress rehearses 2:15 to 3PM

*Find way to eat mid-afternoon snack (food is not permitted in the theatre) 3PM-3:30PM

*Dance Performance 4PM to 5:30PM

*Little Zo Peep & Libby Doodle Doo change into party clothes 5:30PM to 6PM

*Drive to reception 6PM to 6:15PM

*Post performance Reception 6:30PM to 8:30PM

*Drive home and collapse -- 9PM


Doesn't that just make your head hurt? I developed this schedule last night to see how I was going to survive the day. There are things I need to do during the day (e.g. pick up cupcakes for Libby Doodle Doo's birthday on Sunday) that aren't even shoehorned into this schedule yet. And what about naps for Libby Doodle Doo? When (and where) is that poor baby going to get to sleep.


And me -- I'll be weighed down like a pack mule. Forget my diaper bag -- I will probably need a small suitcase of baby supplies to get through through this day. And then I'll have to have some activity stuff to fill the dead times in Zo Peep's afternoon to keep her occupied and out of mischief. I'll probably have to pack a cooler full of snacks and drinks for both Zo Peep and the Doodle. Plus I'll need Zo Peep's dance case (with hair supplies and the dreaded stage make-up). Oh and don't forget the reception. I'll need to pack a change of clothes for each girl for the party after the performance.


I've gotten myself (and my girls) into this crazy nonsense. What advice can you -- my helpful, rationale blog community -- give me to help me and the girls survive this insanity? I've committed to attend all of these events, so I can't back out of anything now. But what tips can you share on how you've survived insanely over-scheduled days?


Sunday is Libby Doodle Doo's birthday. I don't want us to sleep through the day due to total exhaustion. Thankfully, I have no plans for Sunday except church (and a cupcake celebration -- if I find time to pick up the cupcakes on Saturday).

14 comments:

live2qlt said...

All I can say is that I'll be right there with you, except that I won't have the extra child with me all day. I couldn't imagine doing all that we have to do on that day with 2 kids and no help. E would be driving me crazy by the end of the performance. At least you won't be bored sitting for 3-4 hours during rehearsals with nothing to do. Libby will keep you busy :)

Eliza2006 said...

That sounds like a very busy day! Sometimes you just can't help it. Maybe while Zo Peep is at her class or something else Libby DD can nap in the car. We gotten in some good car naps back in the day. Hang on tight...after tonight it will be over and you can spend tomorrow relaxing!

Tiffany

Eliza2006 said...

Oh my! I've had my days mixed up all week. It will all be over after tomorrow night! It's a non-school day today, so it feels like a Sat.!

Tiffany

Deb in MT said...

Hey, you can do ANYTHING! You've been to China to adopt not once, but twice. And as a single mom to boot. You can do anything for 12 hours....then it is all over.

If you have a box of cake mix at home, it may be faster (and more fun) just to make some cupcakes at home Sunday after church. I'm sure Zo Peep would LOVE to help with that during Libby's afternoon nap!

Enjoy!

Gail said...

HOLY MOLY!!
All I can say is hopefully there will be someone who loves babies and wants to give you a helping hand!
Don't forget to bring a comfortable stroller for (hopefully) naps and for storing bags etc underneath!!
Wising you a whole lot of luck!!

Helen said...

Oh wowsers thats a jam packed day!!

What deb said is a good idea - you and Zo Peep could have a nice afternoon on Sunday making cupcakes for the birthday, that way she'll feel really involved in celebrating her birthday.

Tomorrow if they get bored during the day you can play games like i-spy with my little eye (do you play that in America??)

Good luck, hope it goes smoothly for you!!! xx

Unknown said...

I too like Deb's idea about making the cupcakes on Sunday. What they lack in culinary tastiness, they will make up with the whole lotta love we'll throw in.

And I think I will take a stroller -- which I first rejected because it would be one more thing to bring along. But then I thought that maybe I keep extra baby supplies in the trunk of my car and only carry a light diaper bag around.

And Tiffany, I've been screwed up with what day it is ALL week. I knew that Saturday is the 1st so I keep making Friday the 28th, Thursday the 27th and so on.

Anonymous said...

I hope Libby Doodle has a comfy car seat the you can carry around! That will be the ticket for naptime. Been there, done that! And a nice big blanket to cover her eyes and keep her toasty warm. Lots of cheerios. Try to stay away from the fruit snacks. That may just make her hyper and not sleep for her naps. And packed PBJ sandwich and juice drinks, cut up apples, carrots. We live out of our car. I LOVE my van!!
I agree with Deb! You can do anything! To China and Back!! Just put your executive hat on and charge!
The stroller is also a great idea! I can hardly wait to see how your day went. You'll do awesome!!

Anonymous said...

Hope you have time for pictures because we would love to see them!

Lisa and Tate said...

I have a lot of advise to give. It maybe unrealistic, but hey I don't have this experience with being a momma. I will say that one of my talents is organization and figuring out "stuff".

WOW so busy!!! My advise would be to simplify it. Can you have someone (babysitter) watch the Doodle at home while you do the mandarin lesson and school play with Zo Peep? That way, the Doodle can have lunch and naps at home and can be dressed for the dance and the open house afterwards. Zo Peep will

Cupcakes.....Give a quick call to a bakery and pre order you cupcakes and either have friend, family or sitter pick up. I would call someone who will be coming for the cupcake fest, order from a place close to their house and ask them to bring to party. If you ask family, I am sure they will still love you just the same.

Whatever you do, you must take pictures AND if will be over soon enough. I'd skip church on Sunday and SLEEP IN!!!

Lisa

Desert Mama said...

I was going to suggest packing a bigger bag to leave in the trunk and only taking a small bag into the various places. Also this way you can pack a variety of things to do for both girls and trade them out as the day goes on. I would also pack a cooler with snacks and such so you have healthy (or at least healthier) food options than what you may be able to find on the run. Will Libby nap in a carrier? I was lucky in that both of mine would until about 14 months. They get heavy, but I often found that easier than lugging the stroller around. I'll think if I have more ideas.....

Ashley said...

Wanted to wish you luck on your busy day tomorrow.
Not a mama yet, but thought I would leave my two cents...

Don't let yourself get overwhelmed or stressed out because you are running late. When you find yourself getting frustrated take a couple deep breaths, the day will be over before you know it and you'll wish that you could go back and live it all over again even with the craziness.

You have been writing about the affects of the Doodle's arrival on Zo Peep. Let this day be about Zo and her special performances on teh stage. Just having her Mama and her Meimei in the audience watching her will mean more then you probably realize, particularly with Sunday being about the Doodle.

Again good luck tomorrow!

Anonymous said...

Oh my! The only suggestion I can think of is to possibly cut short the time you spend at the post-performance reception, so you can get home a bit earlier (8PM, perhaps) to collapse. It sounds like it will be a very happy and proud day for Zo Peep and hopefully that thought will keep you going.

Anonymous said...

why not cancel mandarin class? sleep later!!