Saturday, February 16, 2008

Blast from the Past

In our crazy 21st century world I find that it’s comforting sometimes to spend time with my kids doing something that is so old-fashioned and so un-cool that it feels like I’ve just taken a trip back into my own childhood.

We did that last night when we attended a local church’s Lenten Fish Dinner. It felt like I had stepped back into the 1960’s. First, the prices seemed like something out of the past. An adult dinner was $8.00. For that amount I got a bowl of New England clam chowder, coleslaw, baked fish, fresh fries and a beverage. And get this – kids under 10 (yes you read that right) eat for FREE. So Little Zo Peep ordered Fish, Slaw, Mac n Cheese and a beverage. I got Fish Sticks, Applesauce and Mac n Cheese for Libby Doodle Doo. So net, net I fed a family of three for the unbelievable, anachronistic price of $8.00 – my gosh you can’t even do that at McDonalds.

Second, the evening was so relaxing. Grade school children from the Church’s school wait tables and bring your order. Our 13 year old waitress fetched a highchair for Libby Doodle Doo, gave us extra saltines to keep her satisfied until her meal came and refilled my root beer 2 times. I offered a $5 tip to her at the end of our meal. At first she refused it, but then finally and gratefully accepted it.

Finally, the evening was soooo sweet – both literally and figuratively. Zo Peep visited the home made desserts table for us when our dinner was done. Desserts are 50 cents each. She got me a piece of homemade apple pie. For herself she selected a homemade Rice Krispies treat. My gosh even the desserts were a page out of my childhood.

On a way home the sweetness continued. Libby Doodle Doo is still in a rear facing car seat so I can’t see her as I drive. A few minutes into our drive, Zo Peep asked for the small blanket that I carry in the diaper bag. I handed it back to her assuming that she was going to use it to cover herself to keep warm.

Then I heard her sweet, little soprano begin to sing You Are My Sunshine and I realized that Zo Peep was singing lullabies to her baby sister (and using the blankee to tuck in Libby Doodle Doo).

I especially appreciated Zo Peep’s selection of song. My fondest memories of my dad (who unfortunately passed away in his 50’s – much too young) were when I as a little girl would climb into his massive lap. He would cradle me in his burly arms and gently rocked me as he would sing his favorite song --You Are My Sunshine. – another childhood memory reinforced on this very magical, nostalgic night.

7 comments:

Gail said...

Sometimes just the "plain and simple" are the best.

What a sweet gesture from Zo to her little sister!
Tell Zo that she is a wonderful big sister and is doing a great job at it!!

Anonymous said...

You'll have to be sure you attend Friday Soup and Bread every night during Lent. Sounds like you had a wonderful time and met genuine people! Although, I am bias because I'm Catholic!

Desert Mama said...

Glad to hear about a great evening - and to hear that Zo Peep is so sweet to her.
I had to laugh about the tip to your waitress, though. I was in a similar situation at my church at a supper at about that age, and I remember that we were volunteers - and not supposed to take tips. Someone tried to tip me and I was too young and nervous to know what to do with it....but too polite to turn it down. Anyway, glad it was a good evening out.

Alyson and Ford said...

What a perfect evening!! All the family and Christian love surrounding you, so very special.

Alyson
LID 01/27/06

Unknown said...

Like Cathy I was raised Catholic so I lived my childhood on "meatless" Fridays -- even after the church changed the rule (my mom thought they might change their minds again and she didn't want to take the gamble). I plan to go back again during Lent -- a very nice way to spend a Friday night.

Anonymous said...

Honestly you can never stop posting. I love your moments that you share. You are such a wonderful mother. Not too many take joy in the simple pleasures of life like the blankie and sweet singing. Your girls are so precious, thank you for sharing your cute moments with us. Have you ever thought of writing a book?

Melissa said...

How absolutely wonderful! :D The simple pleasures are truly the best.